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Thoughtful insights for a gentler, steadier life.
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By Marlene Lopez
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November 25, 2025
Self-criticism often feels “safer” because it creates an illusion of control — if we’re hard on ourselves first, no one else can hurt us.
This article explores the deeper emotional roots of that pattern and offers gentle steps toward a kinder, more supportive inner voice.





